Stop Fighting to Win – Start Fighting for Each Other

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High Performance Parenting | Family Values, Christian Home, Mindset,

Greg and Jacquie Francis | Coaching, Resilience

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This is for parents who understand the calling to raise up the next generation but need help with how to apply God’s principles in their day to day lives. Greg and Jacquie are tremendous examples of how to do this, as their six children already exhibit the traits of strong character, work ethic, love for their siblings and others. They will touch on a variety of topics that are relevant to parents today like discipline, effective communication with your spouse and your children, education, and how to be intentional about developing your children’s character while maintaining family unity.

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Stop Fighting to Win – Start Fighting for Each Other | V84

High Performance Parenting | Family Values, Christian Home, Mindset,

18 minutes 3 seconds

6 days ago

Stop Fighting to Win – Start Fighting for Each Other | V84

In this episode of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis teach biblical communication principles for resolving conflict without breaking connection. Learn the rules that protect your marriage and family from cycles of disconnection — and why winning arguments never builds intimacy.

You’ll Learn:

The 24-hour rule for healthy reconnection
How “I-statements” create safety and honor
Why defensiveness kills connection and how to stop it
How to break hurtful speech habits (like “never” and “always”)
How prayer and perspective soften your heart after conflict
Why connection is a covenant — not a feeling

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00:00 – Intro: The Power of Pausing

00:30 – 24-hour Rule for Reconnection

01:00 – How to Start a Repair Conversation

01:45 – Rules of Engagement: No Yelling or Belittling

02:00 – Using “I-Statements” Instead of Accusationsjacquie-greg (9)

03:00 – How Defensiveness Blocks Connection

04:15 – Why Perspective Matters Before You Talk

05:00 – Letting Your Spouse Speak First

06:00 – Handling Strong-Willed Kids in Conflict

07:15 – Teaching Children Boundaries & Respectful Speech

08:30 – How Prayer Transforms Your Heart

09:30 – Reconnection as a Covenant Choice

10:45 – Final Encouragement: Fight for Peace, Not to Win