Today, we journey into the vital but often overlooked landscape of somatic sexology and its transformative impact on long-term relationships. In this episode, we sit down with Deej Juventin, co-director of the Institute of Somatic Sexology in Australia, who brings over two decades of expertise to help us unravel the mysteries of desire, pleasure, and authentic sexual connection.
Deej sheds light on the profound differences between what we think and what we actually feel—and how bridging this gap can radically shift our relationships. We'll break down how fast-paced lives and digital culture shape our sexual experiences, why the “magic” fades in long-term relationships, and what practical steps couples can take to reignite intimacy and deepen connection.
Join us as we explore real strategies for becoming more present, embodied, and curious—whether you're feeling stuck in sexual ruts or simply want to add more vitality to your partnership. This conversation is for anyone who wants to embrace their full aliveness, connect more deeply with themselves and their partner, and tap into the untapped potential of pleasure.
Key Topics Discussed:
- The meaning of “somatic” and why embodied awareness is the missing piece in sexual and relational fulfillment.
- How cultural myths and modern media—especially pornography—shape (and often limit) our understanding of sex and pleasure.
- Practical approaches for couples to create intentional “practice spaces” for exploring eroticism, communication, and intimacy.
- The lifelong, ever-evolving journey of discovering your unique desires, erotic blueprint, and the importance of self-responsibility in cultivating pleasure.
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