What if the real reason you're not scaling your business… is trauma?
In this powerful episode, I sit down with Psychologist, Business Growth & Success Coach Farya Barlas, the founder of the Success Alignment Method, to uncover the hidden patterns sabotaging high achievers from within. If you’ve ever found yourself burnt out, stuck in perfectionism, undercharging, or feeling disconnected from your purpose despite external success—this conversation is your homecoming.
We dive deep into how unresolved trauma and intergenerational programming silently shape your business, your leadership, and your capacity to dream bigger. Farya shares tangible, somatic strategies for getting unstuck and redefining success in a way that feels safe, soul-aligned, and deeply fulfilling.
This is the integration of inner healing and outer expansion, and we both agree it’s the future of sustainable, soul-led entrepreneurship.
00:03 – Meet Faria Barless: her journey from psychologist to trauma-informed business coach
02:13 – Signs your business is being run from trauma, not truth
04:31 – Redefining trauma: it’s not just big events—it's disconnection from self
06:54 – Visibility wounds, perfectionism, and the false “hustle = success” equation
11:40 – Faria’s Homecoming to Self method explained
13:57 – The danger of staying stuck in “healing forever”
18:28 – Why mindset work alone doesn’t work—what your body is trying to tell you
23:18 – How trauma limits our ability to dream bigger
30:27 – What somatic healing really looks like (and how to start at home)
37:35 – Dissociation vs. true rest: are you actually relaxing?
42:20 – Breaking inherited trauma cycles: how to identify what's not yours
49:20 – The future of trauma-informed business coaching
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