In this episode, Jivan delves into the concept of 'othering', exploring why individuals and groups are often treated as fundamentally different from the norm. Drawing on insights from a previous discussion with Michelle Hartley, Jivan examines the psychological underpinnings of othering, its implications in society, and its pervasive impact within workplace culture. KEY TAKEAWAYS Othering is the act of treating individuals or groups as fundamentally different from oneself, often leading to division and exclusion based on various characteristics such as race, gender, or socioeconomic status. The tendency to other is hardwired into humans as a survival mechanism from our evolutionary past, where distinguishing between "us" and "them" helped assess threats. However, in modern society, this instinct can lead to division and violence. Othering is often exploited by those in power to distract from systemic issues, such as inequality and corporate exploitation, by redirecting public anger towards marginalised groups instead of addressing the root causes of societal problems. Othering manifests subtly in workplaces, leading to biases in hiring, team dynamics, and promotion decisions. This can result in lower employee engagement, higher turnover, and a loss of innovation and productivity. To combat othering, HR professionals should implement interventions beyond awareness training, such as promoting diverse contributions, creating safe spaces for dialogue, and tying inclusion metrics to performance reviews to foster a more inclusive workplace culture. BEST MOMENTS "Othering is when we treat other people or groups as fundamentally different. They're either alien or they're outside the norm or basically they're just not one of us." "Othering reflects power. It's the dominant group who gets to define who's in and effectively who's out." "Every time we make someone the other, we're shrinking the size and the richness of our own experience and of our own community." "It's easier to exclude than to empathise." "When we stop othering, we start building and including." HOST BIO Jivan Dempsey has first hand experience of workplace toxicity and bad boss behaviour. Triggered by the #MeToo movement she was compelled to talk about her experiences in her early career, groomed and assaulted by a boss at work, his subsequent aggression and bullying behaviour which impacted her work performance, mental health and eventually cost her a job she'd loved. Listeners are drawn to her raw honesty and insightful reflections on change and resilience. Her book, "The HR Change Manager's Handbook" and collaboration on "Can't Break Me," attest to her change and transformation expertise and dedication to empowering others - from someone who's been in the trenches and emerged stronger. As a seasoned HR professional, consultant, psychologist and speaker, she offers bespoke consultancy and programmes to help companies navigate HR transformation that delivers a better employee experience and cultural shifts to create healthier, happier, and more inclusive workplaces for all. Please connect with her on Linked In: Jivan Dempsey FCIPD GMBPsS | LinkedIn Or send her an email at: jivan@fiverivers-consulting.com www.fiverivers-consulting.com HR Change Manager’s Handbook: The 3 Step Guide To Managing HR Transformation: https://amzn.eu/d/drvToPv Are you working in a toxic environment? Take our free quiz to find out https://bit.ly/3BPZXSR This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/