In this episode, G and Nessa unzip Tom and Lauren's first trip to the Sexpartment.  They unpack their very first lifestyle night, the visit that started as “we’re just looking” and quickly turned into a crash course in pushy single guys and hard boundaries. With zero prior experience with anyone else, the couple who once printed erotic stories to read to each other in bed found themselves dressed way too sexy for an adult bookstore run, dodging a persistent single male who couldn’t take “no” for an answer from anyone, and bolting out with cold feet.  And let's not forget laughing about their new mantra: “just no anal.” The chaotic night sparked ghosted text chains, a full re-evaluation in the car, and the realization that club marketing (sexy 30-somethings everywhere) doesn’t always match reality. Tom and Lauren tell G and Nessa how that awkward evening forced crystal-clear communication, sparked Lauren’s bi-curiosity, taught them not to cock-block other couples, and ultimately became the messy-but-beautiful origin story of their growth in the lifestyle—complete with SLS hot-date excitement for every new city and the admission that they still sometimes miss blatant flirting cues. Email your questions to Nessa here to be part of "Ask Nessa". Please subscribe on your favorite podcast platform. You can catch us on SLSRadio every Wednesday at 4pm Eastern Time.You can find tons of amazing lifestyle show on FullSwapRadio, including our show, Every Wednesday at 6:30pm and Midnight Eastern Time. We are now hosts on the Swinger Society Discord Server as well.If you have your own sexy stories, please call our hotline and share them with us and our audience. 844-4-Hump-DayIf you have any questions for us, please email us at humpdayquickies@gmail.comVisit our website as well.  HumpDayQuickies.comPlease follow us on all the social platforms:Twitter - HumpDayQuickiesInstagram - HumpDayQuickiesFaceBook - HumpDayQuickiesTikTok - HumpDayQuickiesWe are adding new content as quickly as we can!