
Intro’s “Come Inside” dropped in 1993, and if you’ve ever confused intensity with intimacy, you know this song. This intimate 90s R&B classic captured the kind of desire that feels all-consuming… the electric pull of teenage lust versus the complex reality of adult arousal that asks whether good sex equals emotional investment. In this episode of *I Talk To Myself Sometimes*, Antoinette Arrington explores how this sensual hit reveals what happens when we expect sex to communicate care, the confession of confusing someone wanting your body with them wanting you, and the evolved understanding that desire alone can’t carry the weight of real connection.
Through layered introspection, this episode examines:
• The difference between intensity and emotional investment
• Whether it’s wise to expect sex to prove someone’s care
• How we confuse arousal with validation and connection
Perfect for fans of classic 90s R&B, honest reflections on desire and intimacy, soulful music analysis, personal growth, and introspective podcasts, this episode shows how revisiting songs from our past can help us untangle intensity from true intimacy.
Listen now and reflect on the raw honesty of Intro’s “Come Inside”.