Monica’s “Why I Love You So Much”: How Teenage Devotion Sounds 20 Years Later

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I Talk To Myself Sometimes

Antoinette Arrington

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Sometimes the only way to see it clearly… is to say it out loud. I Talk To Myself Sometimes is where Antoinette Arrington unpacks the life that shaped her — and talks through the woman she’s still becoming. Each episode is sparked by the nostalgic soundtrack of the 90s, revisiting the songs that carried us through first loves, heartbreaks, and grown woman lessons we didn’t even know we were learning. This podcast is for anyone who finds themselves lost in thought, processing life out loud, or replaying old songs with brand new understanding. Through single-sided conversations that feel intimate and unfiltered, Antoinette invites you to reflect, laugh, and maybe heal a little — one track and one musing at a time. If you grew up on 90s RnB and hip-hop, if you’ve ever caught yourself having “that talk” in your head, or if you just need a moment of honesty and nostalgia, this space is for you.

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Monica’s “Why I Love You So Much”: How Teenage Devotion Sounds 20 Years Later

I Talk To Myself Sometimes

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Monica’s “Why I Love You So Much”: How Teenage Devotion Sounds 20 Years Later

Monica’s “Why I Love You So Much” dropped in 1995, and if you were there, you remember. This tender 90s R&B ballad captured the kind of devotion that felt absolute—unguarded, all-encompassing, innocent. In this episode of *I Talk To Myself Sometimes*, Antoinette Arrington explores how this nostalgic classic reveals the beauty and vulnerability of loving someone before you fully know yourself, the lessons we carry from our first experiences of devotion, and the wisdom that comes from looking back on who we were when we first pressed play.

Through layered introspection, this episode examines:

- The innocence of all-in, uncomplicated teenage love

- How early devotion shapes our understanding of connection

- The bittersweet gift of remembering who we were before love got complicated

Perfect for fans of classic 90s R&B, nostalgic reflections, soulful music analysis, personal growth, and introspective podcasts, this episode shows how revisiting songs from our past can reveal the wisdom hidden in our most tender memories.

Listen now and reflect on the timeless lessons of Monica’s “Why I Love You So Much”.

What did this song teach you about love? Drop your reflections in the comments—I want to hear your version of this story.