What if you stopped performing and just lived? A messy,honest start to a podcast about becoming—without having it all figured out.
Hey, it’s me. And I honestly can’t believe I’m doing this. But here we are—mic on, spirit willing. Welcome to IDK, My BFF Jude, the podcast that feels like catching up with your favorite friend on a random Tuesday.
In this first episode, I’m showing up mid-healing, post-burnout, and not even close to having it all figured out. This isn’t curated. It’s not aesthetic. It’s real talk in the messy middle—about identity, purpose, faith, and what happens when you stop performing your life and start actually living it.
I share how I went from wanting to be Oprah to working in finance (??), how I shrank myself to fit what other people expected, and how I hit a wall that forced me to reimagine everything. No more color-coded perfection. No more hiding. Just me—trying to become the version of myself that doesn’t need to be “enough” to be worthy.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re unraveling while becoming, this one’s for you.
🔑 What You’ll Hear:– Why I walked away from corporate life for the sake of my sanity– Reclaiming your identity outside of productivity and performance– How faith still matters to me– The awkward pivots, the low-energy days, the “showing up anyway” moments
💬 “I don’t want to perform my life anymore. I want to live it—with nothing to prove and nothing to hide.”
📣 If this resonated, follow the show and come back every other Tuesday.📣 Leave a review or DM me @idkmybffjude and say “same.”
Host: Judith Sallador
Producer: Michael Gonzales