We’ve all heard it: “If they wanted to, they would.” It’s the phrase people toss around to make sense of missed calls, quiet partners, or unreturned messages. But life and love is rarely that simple. In this episode of In My Voice, Bwanaheri challenges the harshness of that saying, exploring the untold struggles behind silence, absence, and unfulfilled gestures.

From financial struggles and mental health battles to pride, cultural pressures, and the invisible weight of life, we dive into why someone might care deeply but still fail to show it. This episode highlights the difference between circumstance and choice, helping listeners approach relationships with empathy without ignoring red flags.

Tune in for a reflective, emotional, and deeply human conversation that asks us to pause before judging, to seek understanding, and to hold space for the imperfect realities of love and life.