In this episode of Intentional Motherhood, Kelsey dives deep into one of the most transformative parenting books she’s ever read—Hold On to Your Kids by Dr. Gordon Neufeld and Dr. Gabor Maté. If you’ve ever wondered why it feels like your kids care more about what their friends think than what you say, this conversation is for you.
Kelsey unpacks how our culture has slowly shifted children’s attachments away from family and toward peers—and what that means for their emotional and spiritual health. She shares practical ways to “collect your child’s heart” again through connection, presence, and love, and explains how restoring family bonds is the antidote to the overwhelm so many moms feel today.
You’ll hear about:
✨ The six levels of attachment that form secure relationships
✨ How “peer orientation” happens (and why it’s so dangerous)
✨ Simple ways to bring your kids’ hearts back home
✨ Why slowing down, simplifying, and reconnecting is the real revolution of motherhood
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