It’s Both — Personal Growth For Real Life Transitions
Nikki P
35 episodes
2 weeks ago
Personal growth for real-life transitions.
If you’re living in the tension—mixed emotions, unclear answers, big decisions—this show gives you emotional intelligence tools to find clarity and peace in the midst of change.
It’s Both is for people navigating life’s contradictions. Hosted by therapist-turned-storyteller Nikki P, each episode explores why two things can be true at once—and how to move forward with self-compassion. You’ll hear honest conversations and practical guidance on decision making, overthinking, anxiety, boundaries, relationships, identity, faith, career pivots, and more.
Expect real stories, simple frameworks, and permission to feel your feelings—without toxic positivity. Whether you’re rebuilding identity, deconstructing and reconstructing faith, or stepping into a new season, these conversations help you make kinder choices, regulate your emotions, and grow through transition.
Because life isn’t either/or—it’s both.
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Personal growth for real-life transitions.
If you’re living in the tension—mixed emotions, unclear answers, big decisions—this show gives you emotional intelligence tools to find clarity and peace in the midst of change.
It’s Both is for people navigating life’s contradictions. Hosted by therapist-turned-storyteller Nikki P, each episode explores why two things can be true at once—and how to move forward with self-compassion. You’ll hear honest conversations and practical guidance on decision making, overthinking, anxiety, boundaries, relationships, identity, faith, career pivots, and more.
Expect real stories, simple frameworks, and permission to feel your feelings—without toxic positivity. Whether you’re rebuilding identity, deconstructing and reconstructing faith, or stepping into a new season, these conversations help you make kinder choices, regulate your emotions, and grow through transition.
Because life isn’t either/or—it’s both.
Feeling isolated, ashamed, or torn about divorce? This episode names the both/and—grief and relief—while offering emotional intelligence tools for navigating transitions with self-compassion. Therapist and author Oona Metz (founder of long-running divorce support groups for women; Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women) explains why survival mode makes reading hard, how group therapy turns isolation into strength, and language shifts that reduce shame (think “parenting time” vs. “custody,” “family restructuring” vs. “failed marriage”). We also cover co-parenting with an unhealthy ex, what’s actually a safety issue, and the mindset reframe from “who filed first” to “who left the marriage.”
You’ll learn:
- How to hold mixed emotions without self-judgment
- Practical co-parenting boundaries (what to let go vs. when to get help)
- The power of community to rebuild confidence and identity after divorce
- Healing-centered steps to move from survival to personal growth
If you’re considering separation, in the messy middle, or rebuilding on the other side—this conversation is for you (and the friends who love you).
Get Connected & Support the Show:
- Follow Oona Metz on Instagram
- Get connected with Oona Metz (with links to order her upcoming book)
- Subscribe, rate, & review It's Both on Apple Podcasts
- Join the Courageous Living Group Transformation
It’s Both — Personal Growth For Real Life Transitions
Personal growth for real-life transitions.
If you’re living in the tension—mixed emotions, unclear answers, big decisions—this show gives you emotional intelligence tools to find clarity and peace in the midst of change.
It’s Both is for people navigating life’s contradictions. Hosted by therapist-turned-storyteller Nikki P, each episode explores why two things can be true at once—and how to move forward with self-compassion. You’ll hear honest conversations and practical guidance on decision making, overthinking, anxiety, boundaries, relationships, identity, faith, career pivots, and more.
Expect real stories, simple frameworks, and permission to feel your feelings—without toxic positivity. Whether you’re rebuilding identity, deconstructing and reconstructing faith, or stepping into a new season, these conversations help you make kinder choices, regulate your emotions, and grow through transition.
Because life isn’t either/or—it’s both.
