We are delighted to speak with Jay again (in the new year) about topics we’re both passionate about. Jay has been living in Japan for many years. The episode centers on the cultural observation and interchange experienced by Kazak adults living in Japan and explores how one seeks identity and self-expression between Japanese and Kazak cultures. We discuss same-sex marriage's legal and cultural status in Japan and how it compares to attitudes in Kazakhstan. From a gender perspective, we examine Japanese society: does women's social status result from top-down reforms? The availability of paternity leave for men, the “successful woman” trap, and how the media shapes public discourse? We reflect on how Japanese women may be considered "fortunate" in certain ways, such as changes in daughter-in-law expectations and shifts in family structure over time. We also explore how both Japanese and Kazak women may share a cultural experience of shame.

Is Japan's so-called cultural "coldness" unique within East Asia? Are Japanese housewives still the norm, or is this a stereotype? Is solo living becoming a broader trend? We also talk about how Kazaks maintain and develop their cultural circles within Japanese society, and what being Kazakh and having a sense of ethnic identity means to us. How did Kazakintellectuals interpret masculinity? If you enjoy our content, we’d love for you to like, share, and help us spread the word. You're also warmly welcome to join us as a future guest!