“If you calm your own mind and discern the inner minds of others, that may be called the foremost art of war.” — Shiba Yoshimasa

Elon Musk launches rockets.
Taylor Swift reinvents herself every album.
Neither clings to “what used to work.”

But most of us? We stay stuck—
Not because we don’t learn new things…
But because we struggle to unlearn the old.

As mental fitness expert Maya Raichoora puts it:
“Resilience isn’t rigidity. It’s Mind Flex—the ability to switch gears with intention, awareness, and range.”
Think of it like a gearbox for the mind.
You don’t drive the same way uphill, downhill, or through rain.
Why would you lead the same way in every situation?

That hit me this week.

I’m Steven.
During the week, I work with boards and executive teams around the world—helping them lead and transform in the age of AI.
These #SundayReset sessions? They’re where we cut through noise and sharpen what’s human.

Let me share a story:
🧩 The Parable of the Blind Men and the Elephant — a Buddhist lesson from 500 B.C.

Each blind man touches a different part of the elephant and forms a “truth”:
→ A trunk? Must be a snake.
→ A tusk? A spear.
→ A leg? A tree.
→ An ear? A fan.
→ The side? A wall.
→ The tail? A rope.

They’re all partially right. But none have the full picture.

Sound familiar?
We all act from fragments.
Opinions disguised as facts.

But what if they’re not wrong… just holding a different part of the elephant?

You’ve got two choices:
🅐 Cling to certainty.
🅑 Or have the courage to evolve your view.

As David Foster Wallace said:
“A huge percentage of the stuff I tend to be automatically certain of is, it turns out, totally wrong and deluded.”
Truth isn’t in the shouting.
It’s in the shifting.

💡 The strongest leaders I know?
They move like warriors—but think like learners.
They ask:
🛡️ What if I didn’t see this clearly before?
🧭 What do they know that I don’t?

Mark Twain nailed it:
“It ain't what you don’t know that gets you into trouble. It’s what you know for sure that just ain’t so.”
So here’s your challenge this week:
📌 What have you changed your mind on recently?
📌 And what belief are you still clinging to that might need retiring?

Because growth isn’t polishing old beliefs.
It’s having the courage to replace the ones that no longer serve you.

🌱 Change your lens. Change your life.

I’m Steven.
Keep growing. Keep leading.
Until next Sunday.
Let’s get it.