Dusty is joined by Tony DiLorenzo—entrepreneur, podcaster, and co-creator of the One Extraordinary Marriage Show—for a conversation about how building stronger marriages makes us better leaders. Tony shares his unexpected journey from aspiring pro cyclist to marriage coach, opening up about the struggles he and his wife Elisa faced in their own relationship and how those challenges led them to create the Six Pillars of Intimacy framework that has transformed thousands of marriages. He reflects on the power of intentionality and action—two principles that apply as much in the boardroom as they do at home—and why leaders can’t afford to separate who they are at work from who they are in their most important relationships. Along the way, Tony and Dusty explore lessons learned from cycling endurance rides, the role of mentors in shaping vision, and the lasting impact of creating moments that matter. This episode will challenge you to think differently about success, empathy, and influence, and to consider how leading well at home can fuel greater impact in every other arena of life.
Key Timestamps:
(00:00) - From Cyclist to Marriage Expert
(08:55) - The Journey of Marriage and Intentionality
(14:36) - The Birth of One Extraordinary Marriage
(20:20) - Mentors and Milestones
(24:10) - Inflection Points and the Six Pillars of Intimacy
(28:09) - Balancing Business and Marriage
(33:31) - The Role of Vulnerability and Empathy
(39:44) - Creating Meaningful Moments
(42:38) - Daily Practices for Success
(48:15) - Supporting Causes and Getting Connected
Key Topics Discussed:
Leadership Unlocked, Leadership Insights, Dusty Holcomb, Servant Leadership Principles, Self-Leadership Strategies, Growth Mindset in Leadership, Integrity and Leadership, Leadership Development Resources, Effective Leadership Habits, Empowering Leadership Techniques, Senior Executive Insights, Leadership Quotes and Reflections, Leadership Podcast, Executive Coaching, CEO Podcast, Business Leadership, Leadership Growth, Leadership Journey, Stories From Leaders, Leadership Tools, High-Performing Teams, Leadership Mindset, Decision Making, Personal Growth, Leadership Coaching, Organizational Leadership
Mentions:
Website: https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mrtonydilorenzo/
Mentions:
The 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to an Extraordinary Marriage by Alisa DiLorenzo and Tony DiLorenzo
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