Let’s Talk Love brings you advice and insights from trusted experts to help you expand the ways you love, relate, and communicate. Real Love Ready founder and host Robin Ducharme invites guests into conversations that get to the heart of what makes relationships joyful, challenging, and fulfilling. Together, we dive into the big questions around relationships—including all the messy, sexy, awkward, complicated parts of love. New episodes drop every other Thursday. Don't forget to subscribe so you don’t miss a conversation.
Let’s Talk Love brings you advice and insights from trusted experts to help you expand the ways you love, relate, and communicate. Real Love Ready founder and host Robin Ducharme invites guests into conversations that get to the heart of what makes relationships joyful, challenging, and fulfilling. Together, we dive into the big questions around relationships—including all the messy, sexy, awkward, complicated parts of love. New episodes drop every other Thursday. Don't forget to subscribe so you don’t miss a conversation.

What does it really take to feel secure—in yourself, your relationships, and your life?
In this soulful episode of Let’s Talk Love, Robin is joined by internationally recognized therapist and coach, Trevor Hanson, for a deeply honest conversation about what it means to build true emotional security from the inside out.
They explore the roots of anxious attachment, the longing to feel safe and seen, and the inner transformation required to shift old patterns into new, empowered ways of relating. Trevor opens up about his own journey—how heartbreak, burnout, and walking away from a high-pressure career led him to profound healing and purpose.
Together, Robin and Trevor unpack what it looks like to become secure in yourself. They explore how emotional safety starts within, why self-trust, healthy boundaries, and aligned choices matter, and how healing the inner child and being held in the right kind of support can lead to powerful transformation.
Trevor shares his groundbreaking framework, The Secure-Self Journey, and the life-changing work happening inside The Secure Self Club and The Art of Healing.
Robin also reflects on her own path, feeling more secure, aligned, and self-assured than ever before, and how this inner shift is transforming her partnership and every area of her life.
If you’ve ever struggled with anxiety in relationships, people-pleasing, or feeling like your self-worth is tied to others’ approval, this episode will meet you right where you are—with practical wisdom, hope, and the gentle reminder that you are capable of deep, lasting change. Healing is possible. And it always begins within.
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Links:
FREE- Anxious to Secure: Seminarhttps://theartofhealingbytrevor.com/from-anxious-to-secure
FREE- Know Your Boundaries Workshop: https://theartofhealingbytrevor.com/know-your-boundaries
Apply to join the Secure Self Club: https://theartofhealingbytrevor.com/secure-self-club-official-dc
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