You don’t owe anyone the version of you that made them comfortable.Today’s episode of Life in Focus dives into what really happens when you start setting boundaries without apology.If you’ve ever been called selfish for saying no, cold for protecting your peace, or “different now” just because you stopped overgiving—this one’s for you.We’ll unpack:Why people take your boundaries personally (spoiler: it’s not about you)How fawning and over-functioning are actually trauma responsesThe nervous system rewiring that happens when you stop abandoning yourselfReal stories from my marriage that show what healthy boundaries look like in practiceThis episode is a reminder that you can love people deeply and still say, “That doesn’t work for me.”You can care without carrying. You can stay kind without staying small.Listen until the end for a reflection question to help you identify where you’re still mistaking self-abandonment for connection.Stay connected: • TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@lifeinfocuswithsuttida • Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/suttidalifeinfocus • Website → https://suttida.com • Download the Healing & Growth Workbook → https://stan.store/lifeinfocuswithsuttida/p/get-the-healing--growth-workbook