Lightworkers are healers who transmute darkness into light. They are those who walk among us who make you feel better, just from being in their presence. Can a Dominatrix really be a Lightworker? Yes - if she is playing consciously, in service to the well-being of her submissives. If a Domme can see and accept her subs for all of who they are, if she can meet them in their darkness and celebrate it with them, she can transmute pain into ecstacy, shame into acceptance, fear into love. This is the role and mission of The Evolutionary Dominatrix™.
BDSM is an artform, healing modality and energy exchange relationship that is widely misunderstood and misrepresented in the media as abusive, comical or sick. People judge or ridicule that which they do not understand. Representations of kink for the purpose of entertainment don't do justice to the beauty and totality of this unique connection, based on trust and mutual respect.
In this podcast, Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D., provides a glimpse into the real world of BDSM, kink and erotic domination and the intricacies of the lives of people who live in it. These are usually intelligent people with a high level of self-awareness and psychological health. They are professionals, parents, artists, technicians...people you know and talk to on a daily basis. Here, they will have open and honest conversations about why BDSM is such a big part of their lives and how they benefit from this unique lifestyle.
Mistress Damiana is a professional and lifestyle dominatrix who has held a full-time practice for over 2 decades at her elegantly-appointed BDSM studio in Los Angeles, the Chi Temple. She holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology, a Masters degree in counseling psychology, and a Bachelors degree in behavioral sciences. She is also a certified sexologist, specializing in kink-centered life coaching.
Mistress Damiana is the founder The Evolutionary Dominatrix™ Academy, in which she personally mentors pro and lifestyle Dommes, in all parts of the world online, in the art of Conscious Female Domination with her self-developed psychologically-based methodology. The marriage of her psychological background and passion for the BDSM arts and D/s dynamics gave birth to her evolutionary teachings, taking FemDom to a new level of excellence, connection and joy.
Mistress Damiana is also the creator of Conscious Kink Community – a private social network that is exclusive to personally-vetted members only who are a right fit for this special community. These are kinksters who share a like-minded consciousness about being respectful and supportive of one another, in a safe container where we can share and connect about anything kink related.
Connect with Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D. at damianachiphd.com and on most social media platforms at @damianachiphd. Her lectures and interviews can be seen on YouTube.
If you would like to support this podcast, please become Mistress Damiana's patron by going to Patreon.com/damianachiphd.
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Lightworkers are healers who transmute darkness into light. They are those who walk among us who make you feel better, just from being in their presence. Can a Dominatrix really be a Lightworker? Yes - if she is playing consciously, in service to the well-being of her submissives. If a Domme can see and accept her subs for all of who they are, if she can meet them in their darkness and celebrate it with them, she can transmute pain into ecstacy, shame into acceptance, fear into love. This is the role and mission of The Evolutionary Dominatrix™.
BDSM is an artform, healing modality and energy exchange relationship that is widely misunderstood and misrepresented in the media as abusive, comical or sick. People judge or ridicule that which they do not understand. Representations of kink for the purpose of entertainment don't do justice to the beauty and totality of this unique connection, based on trust and mutual respect.
In this podcast, Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D., provides a glimpse into the real world of BDSM, kink and erotic domination and the intricacies of the lives of people who live in it. These are usually intelligent people with a high level of self-awareness and psychological health. They are professionals, parents, artists, technicians...people you know and talk to on a daily basis. Here, they will have open and honest conversations about why BDSM is such a big part of their lives and how they benefit from this unique lifestyle.
Mistress Damiana is a professional and lifestyle dominatrix who has held a full-time practice for over 2 decades at her elegantly-appointed BDSM studio in Los Angeles, the Chi Temple. She holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology, a Masters degree in counseling psychology, and a Bachelors degree in behavioral sciences. She is also a certified sexologist, specializing in kink-centered life coaching.
Mistress Damiana is the founder The Evolutionary Dominatrix™ Academy, in which she personally mentors pro and lifestyle Dommes, in all parts of the world online, in the art of Conscious Female Domination with her self-developed psychologically-based methodology. The marriage of her psychological background and passion for the BDSM arts and D/s dynamics gave birth to her evolutionary teachings, taking FemDom to a new level of excellence, connection and joy.
Mistress Damiana is also the creator of Conscious Kink Community – a private social network that is exclusive to personally-vetted members only who are a right fit for this special community. These are kinksters who share a like-minded consciousness about being respectful and supportive of one another, in a safe container where we can share and connect about anything kink related.
Connect with Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D. at damianachiphd.com and on most social media platforms at @damianachiphd. Her lectures and interviews can be seen on YouTube.
If you would like to support this podcast, please become Mistress Damiana's patron by going to Patreon.com/damianachiphd.
Get bonus content on PatreonHosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This podcast is the recording of one of the monthly Conscious Kink Q&A Zoom Call that I host for my Patreon community. (Identities and voices have been hidden and altered for privacy.). I’m sharing it to this podcast to educate, and raise awareness and understanding about conscious and ethical kink, BDSM and FemDom. If you would like to join these monthly Zoom calls to ask me questions directly, you are welcome to join as a Patreon member at https://patreon.com/damianachiphd
There were so many great questions on this call, like these:
I am curious to know how your experiences with female clients compare to those with male clients. Do you have any advice on effectively dominating female submissives compared to male submissives?
Is the desire to be owned, with absolute submission and obedience a kink of its own? Because for me, that is what drives me, but others seem driven by particular kinks alone.
Recently, my Mistress released me from our dynamic. It was my first lifestyle dynamic. I am wondering how to work through the sadness of being released from a D/s dynamic.
How can a sub make a session more enjoyable for his Mistress’ desires? What are the cues she shows, whether it is corporal, humiliation or bondage or other?
What, if any, is the correlation between Female Supremacy/beta males and Mistress/slave relationships?
It is an honor to provide education to my Patreon community and to share it with the wider kink community and the public. It is so important to share this information to dispel misunderstandings and misrepresentations of what true BDSM is. BDSM is about love, trust, acceptance, openness, sharing, and intimacy. Anything else that feels self-serving, harmful, or negative is not true BDSM. Please share this information with anyone who is interested so we can spread knowledge and understanding about this beautiful artform and deep level of connection.
This podcast is fully supported by my Patreon members - your patronage is so appreciated. As a member of my Patreon community, you will be able to ask your own questions on monthly Zoom calls like the one you just heard, and also be invited to watch me dominate a Patreon member live, in-person!
You can become a member by going to patreon.com/damianachiphd.
I’d like to send special thanks and shout-outs to my Patreon members. Your support means so much to me, and it feels so good to know that what I’m doing is appreciated by you. It is an honor to contribute to my beloved kink community.
Many thanks to:
caryn, Goddess Anj, Daniel R, p, marc, nipples, Mistress Nacole, pussy, Andres, Richard L. Tackett, Jo, C, Aline N, Mistress Cat Noir, micael g, Miss michelle robbins, Adam, Kristina T, Desiree, Soumitro SD, Sylva R, Sabrina E, Joseph N, Venus Thee Goddess, Joanna, Marisa, G Hilscher, Alejandra CS,, Goddess Rose, Robert W, Richard, EL, Nick, McKenna G, Nevaeh, Barry B, Ben, Julian S, Mystic Dax, vincent v, Divine Diva, Tom, DJW, Bill Bumpus, Jon , Tracey C, Flora, Jackie J, Miss Hella, Carmen L, Irene C, Rox, Christopher S, Rocky, Leigh F, Soletramp, Ms_Coco_1111, Gala, LadySublime, uuee, crump, Jake, Betty, and sweetgirl julia
And special thanks to the editor, sweetgirl julia 💝
✨ Connect with Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D.✨
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Community | https://www.consciouskinkcommunity.com
Sessions | https://mistressdamianachi.com
Consultations | https://www.bdsmsexologist.com
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