Why This Episode Matters: We're living in a world that makes caring feel embarrassing and trying feel cringe — but what if the things we can't stop thinking about are exactly what we're meant to be doing? In this episode, we explore the cultural cringe around “trying too hard,” especially in creative work, and make a case for caring whether it’s about art, ambition, and letting yourself be a beginner. From celebrity narratives to the “starving artist” myth and the urge to monetise every hobby, we unpack why showing up fully matters and how to do it with joy (not hustle). If you've ever felt like caring too much makes you uncool, this one's for you. We Chat About: Why “try-hard” has become an insult, and why we’re reclaiming it Ambition in the arts vs. business (and why creatives get viewed differently) The joy-driven pursuit of craft Money, recognition, and permission to be compensated for art The importance of messy drafts, practice, and tolerating imperfection Hobbies for pleasure vs. the pressure to monetise every creative impulse Threads We Followed: Unlearning the “starving artist” narrative and late-stage capitalism vibes Creative practice as nervous system care (space, recovery, integration) Letting story + body lead you back to what feels alive How gentle accountability and friendship make creative risks easier Lines that Landed: “Trying isn’t cringe — it means you care.” “You don’t have to monetise every spark; some things get to stay yours.” “Practice means some drafts are terrible on purpose.” “Caring is cool. Celebrate the people you love for doing what they love.” Resources & Links: Follow us on Instagram Join our newsletter