You don’t want him obsessed with you — you need to be obsessed with you. This week on Love, Brie, I’m diving into the dating trend that’s taken over TikTok and beyond: women saying they only want a man who's “obsessed” with them. And honestly? That energy is not it.
Here’s the thing — you don’t actually want that. In this episode, I’m breaking down why that obsession talk doesn’t sit right with me, why it’s not actually romantic, and why it points to a deeper issue: you’re looking for someone else to validate you when you really need to be obsessed with your own life first.
Healthy love is built on interdependence, not intensity. So let’s talk about building a life you love, and attracting someone who has a full, rich one of their own — not someone who makes you their entire world. Because P.S. you actually don't want that either! Or at least...you shouldn't.
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