Have you ever felt awkward, or out of place.   I was stuck in being proper and struggled with being free and fun.  My fun was limited on doing things right.  As I grew up I became more in control (or controlling).   In dance I was a skilled back leader, wanting to be in control.  Any men out there find this the same with your wife or girlfriend.  It wasn't until I learned to dance, that I found the joy in being feminine and giving up control, to be the best version of me.   So if you are stuck being in control all the time...take a moment and listen to this story.