In this episode, we sit with the layered emotions behind "I'd Rather" by Luther Vandross — a song that beautifully, and painfully, captures the tension between love, sacrifice, and self-worth. Together, we explore the complexities of staying through hard times: when is it a rough patch worth fighting for, and when might we be clinging to struggle love? Through personal reflection and lyrical breakdown, we ask the deeper questions about what it really means to choose someone, and when choosing ourselves might be the greater act of love.