10+ years together?!?! That’s at least one lifetime in terms of Hollywood relationship years!
Linda & Will are a young married couple who actually started off as a complete and utter mismatch. Yet somehow, they’ve managed to find common ground in their underlying values, outlook of the world and form a life-long magnetic bond in both their personal and business endeavors.
We are creating a positive community of people to share our life experiences with and vice versa. Come join and grow with us in this podcast as we share all the things we wish we knew growing up, the invaluable (and oftentimes hilarious) lessons we’ve learned from our stumbles & missteps, and the many more adventures we’ve yet to discover in this crazy ride called Life.
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10+ years together?!?! That’s at least one lifetime in terms of Hollywood relationship years!
Linda & Will are a young married couple who actually started off as a complete and utter mismatch. Yet somehow, they’ve managed to find common ground in their underlying values, outlook of the world and form a life-long magnetic bond in both their personal and business endeavors.
We are creating a positive community of people to share our life experiences with and vice versa. Come join and grow with us in this podcast as we share all the things we wish we knew growing up, the invaluable (and oftentimes hilarious) lessons we’ve learned from our stumbles & missteps, and the many more adventures we’ve yet to discover in this crazy ride called Life.
Are you keeping score in your relationship? Do you constantly point out all the things you do for the relationship, but also make it known the things your partner isn’t doing? Maybe you’re not even aware that you’re doing it, and the impact it’s having on your relationship. Oftentimes, keeping score creates a rift and divide between the couple because in order for a partner to “win”, the relationship must lose. Feelings of resentment, anger, and frustration lead to stress and tension that continues to build up until eventually the relationship breaks and is destroyed.
In this episode, we reflect on how we catch ourselves keeping score even after being together in a healthy and loving relationship for over a decade. We explore why most of us recognize that keeping score is not good for our relationships, yet we end up doing it anyways. We offer suggestions through our own journey on how to stop keeping score all the time, and work on learning to think more with a single team mentality. What we realized is that when we stop competing with each other and only pointing out our flaws, we are happier, stronger and more grateful for our partners.
0:00 Intro
1:16 Welcome banter
3:11 Start of topic
6:44 How we keep score
9:57 Why do we keep score in relationships
16:04 Keeping score hurts your relationship
19:09 We’re on the same team
23:24 How do you stop keeping score
29:51 Takeaways & lessons learned
Magnetic Mismatch
10+ years together?!?! That’s at least one lifetime in terms of Hollywood relationship years!
Linda & Will are a young married couple who actually started off as a complete and utter mismatch. Yet somehow, they’ve managed to find common ground in their underlying values, outlook of the world and form a life-long magnetic bond in both their personal and business endeavors.
We are creating a positive community of people to share our life experiences with and vice versa. Come join and grow with us in this podcast as we share all the things we wish we knew growing up, the invaluable (and oftentimes hilarious) lessons we’ve learned from our stumbles & missteps, and the many more adventures we’ve yet to discover in this crazy ride called Life.
