On this episode on Man... ShutUp!, we cover "THE BEGINNING". The beginning where something higher than you brought you to every lesson thats in your relationship. The beginning where everything was what you dreamed about. The beginning where your plans seemed prosperous, but during the middle and the end, what happened? Did we ever think that maybe instead of quickly running from person to person, searching for the same things, we may need to take our time and look deeper... WITHIN OURSELVES.  Instead, we are so quick to point the finger at why the other person is NOT fulfilling what we think we need, when in actuality we are suppose to have what we need first before putting those situations on others. Could the rules that we were taught, be wrong? We thought what makes you stronger is going though experiences and lessons, only to learn TOGETHER, and BUILD as we know that NOBODY IS PERFECT. We then try to find that significant  other who covers all (THE PERFECT PERSON) instead of who covers most.   We have identified in this episode that relationships are led by interior selfishness instead of true LOVE. ((PERFECTION OVER CREATION))  For some, even leaving when needed, to only not to look back in that same mirror is as worse as sticking around through turmoil. Even when we know the more we go back out to "THE STREETS" our value dips, we still think the grass is greener. The higher power gave you the two people in the BEGINNING, and even they messed up. But what we can't say is that they didn't stick TOGETHER while taking the penalties.  So are we saying that the higher power was wrong for creating those two knowing what he already knew, or did he understand that it was because of so, that we need to trust in something else, and build with other things that doesn't not start with what your expect.  We are ADAM AND EVE.... with a twist.  Can we make it easier by watching other things that are important in our love lives. As we show you examples in this episode.... LETS ENCOURAGE REAL LOVE AGAIN... WE NEED EACH OTHER.... WE ARE BOTH IN THE SAME BOAT.. ITS WELL ABOVE US.... LETS BRING THE UNDERSTANDING, PATIENCE AND PRAYER BACK IN....   ~ENJOY  follow us on IG @man_shutup1 and reach out to us at flamegametime84@gmail.com (ALSO WE APPRECIATE THE EMAILS THAT HELPED ENCOURAGE THIS TOPIC -- all 6 of you!)