Send us a text In this episode, Vance chats with Tom, a sex and relationship therapist, for an honest conversation about what it feels like to be gay men navigating modern intimacy. Together, they unpack loneliness, emotional safety, and the tension between freedom and connection, while diving into monogamy in the gay community — where it often feels split between monogamous and non-monogamous relationships. Rather than prescribing a “right” way, they explore how the real work is about self-a...
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Send us a text In this episode, Vance chats with Tom, a sex and relationship therapist, for an honest conversation about what it feels like to be gay men navigating modern intimacy. Together, they unpack loneliness, emotional safety, and the tension between freedom and connection, while diving into monogamy in the gay community — where it often feels split between monogamous and non-monogamous relationships. Rather than prescribing a “right” way, they explore how the real work is about self-a...
Matthew - Erotic Performance as a Path to Connection
Mask Off for Masc with Vance
1 hour 2 minutes
7 months ago
Matthew - Erotic Performance as a Path to Connection
Send us a text In this episode, I have the pleasure of chatting with the funny and delightful Matthew Shur. We talk about our experiences working with Himeros and how each of us found our way into the world of porn. We also explore how performance can enhance sex—especially when we're truly connected to our bodies. The conversation touches on burlesque as a celebration of self-love, and how it's about loving your body while inviting others to witness and enjoy that love. We also discuss the r...
Mask Off for Masc with Vance
Send us a text In this episode, Vance chats with Tom, a sex and relationship therapist, for an honest conversation about what it feels like to be gay men navigating modern intimacy. Together, they unpack loneliness, emotional safety, and the tension between freedom and connection, while diving into monogamy in the gay community — where it often feels split between monogamous and non-monogamous relationships. Rather than prescribing a “right” way, they explore how the real work is about self-a...
