You don’t sabotage yourself because you’re weak. You sabotage yourself because part of you still identifies as the person who loses. The person who plays small. The person who doesn’t quite deserve the win.

So when success starts getting close, your brain panics. “That’s not me,” it whispers. “Better pull back. Better stall. Better blow it up.”

That’s the trap. That’s the loop. And unless you break it, every goal will always feel just out of reach.

The truth is simple: sabotage is just a pattern. And patterns only last as long as you feed them.

Break this one, and you won’t just hit your goals. You’ll stop fearing them.