In this episode, we sit down with siblings Maddie and Max Kelly as they reflect on what it was like growing up alongside their brother, Oscar, who has special needs. Through honest stories and heartfelt insight, they share early memories of welcoming Oscar into their family, the gradual realizations that his needs were different, and the ways those differences shaped their childhood.
The conversation explores the evolving journey of communication with Oscar, the deep love woven into their family dynamic, and how their parents worked tirelessly to create a childhood that felt full, balanced, and supported. Maddie and Max also speak to the crucial role of PCAs, the protective instincts that emerged over time, and the quiet challenges siblings often carry—even when resentment is rare.
They offer thoughtful guidance for families walking similar paths, emphasizing transparency, education, and the importance of caring for oneself while caring for others. Their perspective highlights not only the complexities of growing up with a disabled sibling, but also the joy, connection, and resilience that define their bond with Oscar.
Subjects covered include:
Early memories and first impressions of Oscar
Gradual realizations of developmental differences
How communication with Oscar has changed over time
Family dynamics and the influence of supportive parents
The essential role of PCAs in daily life
Navigating sibling emotions, confusion, and protectiveness
Advocating for disability awareness and understanding
Why self-care matters for parents and siblings alike
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