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Keywords mentorship, overcoming shyness, career growth, asking for help, organic relationships, networking, professional development, actionable advice, building confidence, personal growth

Summary In this episode, Angela and Bill discuss the common barrier of shyness when it comes to seeking mentorship. They explore actionable strategies to overcome this fear, emphasizing the importance of reframing the request for mentorship, building organic relationships, and preparing thoughtful questions. The conversation also addresses handling rejection and finding opportunities for connection, ultimately encouraging listeners to take control of their career growth.

Takeaways

• Many people feel intimidated when asking for mentorship.
• Reframing the request can reduce feelings of being a burden to the potential mentor.
• Mentorship often grows organically from informal conversations.
• Preparing a script can help reduce anxiety when asking for help.
• Asking specific questions is more effective than a broad request for mentorship.
• Practicing with low-stakes individuals can build confidence.
• Networking opportunities can arise in informal settings.
• Expect a range of responses when asking for mentorship.
• You’re accountable for and have control over your own career growth.

Chapters

00:00 Overcoming Shyness in Mentorship

03:23 Reframing the Mentorship Request

06:34 Preparing for the Conversation

09:16 Navigating Responses and Rejections

12:15 Finding Opportunities for Connection

15:19 Taking Control of Your Career Growth