Are you caught in a cycle of overthinking that leaves you feeling stuck and disconnected from your true self? On this week's episode of the Midlife Catalyst Podcast, I had the pleasure of speaking with Shauna Hawkes, a women's embodiment mentor and yoga teacher, who shed light on how we can move from overthinking to calm and build self-trust.
The Overthinking Trap
Many of us, especially women, find ourselves caught in a cycle of overthinking. We create routines, set goals, and constantly strive to do more. While these practices can be beneficial, they often keep us stuck in our heads rather than allowing us to truly feel and experience life.
Shauna pointed out that this tendency to overthink is often rooted in our masculine energy - the part of us that's all about doing, achieving, and pushing forward. While this energy has its place, an overreliance on it can leave us feeling disconnected from our bodies and our intuition.
The Power of Pausing
One of Shauna's most powerful insights was the importance of pausing. In our busy lives, it's easy to keep pushing forward, thinking that if we just do one more thing, we'll finally feel calm and in control. However, true calm comes from slowing down and connecting with our bodies.
Shauna suggests a simple yet powerful practice: when you notice yourself overthinking, pause for a moment. Close your eyes and tune into your body. Ask yourself:
This practice of body awareness can help shift us out of our racing thoughts and into the present moment.
This conversation is a gentle reminder that the answers we seek often lie within us, waiting to be uncovered through patience, self-compassion, and embodied awareness. Whether you're grappling with overthinking, seeking your life's purpose, or simply curious about alternative paths to self-discovery, Shauna's insights offer a refreshing perspective on living authentically and embracing your unique journey.
Connect with Shauna by visiting her website: https://www.shaunahawkes.com/
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