In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Arnold Beekes, founder of Brain Gym Fitness, to explore what it really means to break free of the mental and emotional “straitjackets” so many men in midlife wear.
Arnold shares his personal story of growing up in a strict, authoritarian household, spending decades fitting in to corporate and social expectations, and then — through crisis and deep questioning — beginning the journey to discover who he truly is.
Arnold introduces the idea of the “Flying Out Brain Operating System”, a 15-week training framework built on the 6 Rs:✅ Reveal✅ Recover✅ Reactivate✅ Reset✅ Relearn✅ Recreate
He explains how these steps help people identify the invisible cages that society, education, and family can place around us, and how to dismantle them to build a life of authentic purpose and meaning.
We discuss:
Arnold’s story is a call to slow down, reflect, and rebuild life around your unique gifts. If you’ve ever wondered whether there’s more to life than checking boxes, this conversation will make you stop and think.
Learn more about Arnold and his program here: https://braingym.fitness/
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Take the Midlife Assessment today, and start writing yours.Thanks for tuning in, and I’ll catch you in the next episode
Chapters
00:00 Journey of Discovery: Travel and Purpose
03:54 The Invisible Forces: Understanding Human Behavior
07:08 Childhood Challenges: The Impact of Family Dynamics1
0:11 From Fitting In to Flying Out: Personal Transformation
12:50 The Role of Coaching: Seeking Guidance and Support
16:55 Breaking Free: Escaping the Corporate Cage
23:08 The Birth of Brain Fitness: A New Approach to Mental Health
36:24 The Six Rs of Personal Development
39:06 Overcoming Stagnation in Personal Growth
41:22 Identifying the Target Audience for Coaching
43:18 Transforming Life Post-Corporate Career
47:47 Breaking Free from Societal Constraints
48:07 Discovering Your Uniqueness
2:27 Tools for Self-Reflection and Growth
58:25 The Importance of Prioritizing Self-Care
01:01:21 The Dangers of AI and Cognitive Decline
01:04:04 Awakening to Societal Manipulations
01:08:32 Finding Resources and Support for Change
01:10:44 Embracing Authenticity and Purpose