The problem is I see with women who are in their late 20s or 30s who are still single is not just high expectations but also double standards. They also have massive attitude (entitled, egoistic and arrogant) and self esteem issues. These women want someone who has money but they don’t make the same , they want someone with nice body but themselves don’t have that, they want someone successful but they are lazy themselves. People who usually end up together are both in the same league . A successful good man with money would want someone in his level (he makes sure that he doesn’t end up with a gold digger and superficial women, who is only it for his money and status) No successful decent man will wanna marry someone who isn’t even in the same league as him, unless he is a sugar daddy .

High expectations as well because of social media, thinking grass is greener in the other side. No girl. You water your own grass . Some women also stay too long for men who made it clear he doesn’t want relationship with her but still stay (she’s the only one to blame), and this stuff won’t happen if you don’t let it happen. A lot of women as well want a fairytale to show it off on social media, but they need to be educated that love has nothing to do with grand gestures and vacations. Often men who lavish women with these stuff are superficial men and cheaters , they lavish them to show it off to other guys how he has it, he doesn’t do it for the girl.