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In this episode, Transformational Author, Coach, and Speaker, Trish Ahjel Roberts talks to Narcissist Survivor and Validation Coach, Nikieta Lambert. Nikieta created a community for survivors of toxic caregivers called "The Fold" after healing from the abuse of a narcissistic mother.
01:27 - Nikieta shares her backstory
03:40 - How Nikieta learned about narcissism
05:20 - Trish talks about narcissists and success*
06:20 - Nikieta explains how she helps adults feel validated
07:45 - Trish discusses validation and relationships
10:30 - Trish introduces Dr. Ramani's acronym for identifying narcissists
11:00 - The pursuit of conflict
12:40 - Stuck in a rigid personality
14:15 – When narcissists go to therapy
14:39 – Always antagonistic
15:45 – How religious circles can play a role
17:14 – Forever a victim
19:05 - Feelings of entitlement
21:00 - Why narcissists ruin holidays
23:23 - The connection to reparenting
24:00 - Uncontrollable emotions
26:35 - Nikieta's recommendations for dealing with narcissists
31:47 - Trish's tips for navigating narcissists
35:50 - The importance of feeling good
37:00 - Does it matter if your toxic person is a narcissist?
39:20 - Trish shares her tips for identifying if your relationship is healthy
Nikieta's Resources:
https://NikietaLambert.com
https://www.nikietalambert.com/post/should-you-tell-the-narcissist-how-you-feel
Follow @NikietaLambert
Trish's Resources:
https://TrishAhjelRoberts.com/Programs
https://TrishAhjelRoberts.com
https://trishahjelroberts.com/2022/10/13/the-gem-test-are-your-relationships-healthy/
https://trishahjelroberts.com/2021/07/15/growing-or-dying-do-you-know-a-narcissist/
https://doctor-ramani.com/
*Correction. Approximately 5% of the US population and 15% of CEOs are narcissists. https://corpgov.law.harvard.edu/2021/10/25/are-narcissistic-ceos-all-that-bad/
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