What if the rise of divorce isn’t a failure of love — but an initiation into conscious relating?
In this conversation with Sarah Intelligator, veteran family law attorney, yoga teacher, and author of Live, Laugh, Find True Love, we explore the patterns, pitfalls, and potentials of modern marriage.
Close to 20 years in the courtroom,, Sarah has seen it all (let's say US based drama, can it get any more?!) — and she’s on a mission to help couples never make it to her office in the first place.
Together we dive into the six F’s that make or break relationships: Fundamental values, Fear, Foundation, Fairy Tale, Family, and Fixing.
We discuss:
How to set your marriage up for success before it begins - this is a tough one though!
Why “starter marriages” might be a generational rite of passage // the evolutionary path of our time?
What modern courtroom cases reveal about the state of intimacy in 2025 — from custody battles, IVF's to OnlyFans discoveries
Why values matter more than chemistry, and how to talk about them early on
How to navigate communication, honesty, and respect as moving pillars in a long-term relationship
And finally, what it means to reclaim healthy masculinity and feminine polarity in today’s world
This episode invites you to think beyond “happily ever after” and toward a vision of partnerships that evolve, grow, and stay rooted in reality — not fantasy.
📖 Get Sarah’s book: Live, Laugh, Find True Love
📸 Connect with Sarah: @sarah.a.intelligator.esq
🌐 Visit: lafamilylawpractice.com
This episode is sponsored and hosted by Modern Couples Coaching with the intention to inspire and have new conversations to rewire our brains for the 10x kind of love.
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