Have you ever told yourself, “It’s just the gym, I don’t need to do my hair,” or “I’m going on a long trip, no need to look cute”? Maybe you’ve let things slide at the beach, at the pool, or on a lazy Sunday — thinking it doesn’t really matter.

In this episode, Clarissa invites you to question those “exceptions.” Because she’s been there. For years, she believed that not caring about her appearance in certain situations made her practical — even empowered. But deep down, there was something else going on.

She realized that what she called “not caring” was actually a lack of self-worth. She didn’t feel worthy of looking a certain way. She held back from investing in herself. And if someone else did put in the effort? She often judged them — not out of malice, but because it triggered something she hadn’t yet healed.

This conversation isn’t about being high-maintenance. It’s about identity. It’s about choosing to show up as the woman you know you are — not just when it’s easy or convenient, but always.

Because the way you treat your appearance isn’t superficial. It’s a reflection of how deeply you value yourself.

And when that shifts, everything else does too.

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