Today, I'm interviewing, Kelila Green Siciliano. She is a mom, a surrogate, a pregnancy loss survivor, a speaker, the founder of OursAndYRS, and the host of the podcast, "Pushing Through Loss" where Kelila speaks about her experience with surrogacy, pregnancy loss, and creating a survival toolkit in order to help her audience feel empowered to use their own struggles to work with them and not push against them.  Today, Kelila shares about: * The challenges of trying to learn how to breastfeed with her first. * How she used a washcloth to get her first baby on the breast. * Her experience using a nipple shield and the MyBreastFriend Pillow * How her nipples chapped even though there was only 6 months in between breastfeeding her first and her second. * The multiple healing properties of breastmilk * Weaning her third at 17 months in order to become a surrogate * Why she hand expressed for the surrogate baby * The difference between night milk and morning milk * Nipple flange sizing and how your nipple size changes during breastfeeding * Breastfeeding and pumping in public * Becoming a doula * Pregnancy Loss - Kelila lost her second surrogate baby at 16 weeks, 5 days. From this created a pregnancy loss workbook you can find on her website You can find Kelila at: https://www.instagram.com/oursandyrs/ or https://www.kelilagreenspeaker.com/ Resources:  * Nipple Shield: https://amzn.to/3vm5FZA * My Breast Friend Nursing Pillow: https://amzn.to/48vgiro * La Leche League: https://llli.org/ Thank you so much for listening. If you enjoyed today's episode, it would mean the world to me if you'd be willing to take 30 seconds to rate and review the podcast. And, if you're interested in coming on to share your own baby-feeding story, head to mollyrider.com [http://www.mollyrider.com/] and click on "Share Your Story."