Some dislike the idea of being tied down by marriage. Others find lobola charges unaffordable. Some think lobola is outdated and should be done away with and so they do not even bother to pay it.

Others want to get married but feel that it is better to spend time living together to see how compatible they are before tying the knot.

In this podcast we talk to Runesu & Heather who cohabited before getting married. They share with us what it's really like to cohabit, the good(if any) the bad and the ugly.