We're Behk & LAH /ehl-uh/ and we are your hosts of the podcast, Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My! We have casual conversations with brave people about their past toxic relationships with a funny, light-heartedness that might have you crying but hopefully, some laughing too.
Our mission is to shed light on toxic relationships, providing a source of comfort, knowledge, and guidance for those who have experienced or are currently in such relationships. We have each experienced toxic relationships. After years of therapy and healing, we want to let you know it’s possible to break free. It’s not easy, but it's possible and absolutely worth it. Oh my, let's get into it!
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We're Behk & LAH /ehl-uh/ and we are your hosts of the podcast, Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My! We have casual conversations with brave people about their past toxic relationships with a funny, light-heartedness that might have you crying but hopefully, some laughing too.
Our mission is to shed light on toxic relationships, providing a source of comfort, knowledge, and guidance for those who have experienced or are currently in such relationships. We have each experienced toxic relationships. After years of therapy and healing, we want to let you know it’s possible to break free. It’s not easy, but it's possible and absolutely worth it. Oh my, let's get into it!
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In this episode, Behk and LAH sit down with Lauren, who bravely shares her journey of falling for a man she met online during the isolation of the COVID pandemic—a man whose charm masked deep manipulation and abuse.
What began as intense love bombing quickly spiraled into a toxic two-year cycle of deceit, emotional chaos, and psychological warfare. Lauren opens up about discovering he was constantly engaging other women behind her back, lying without remorse, and gaslighting her into questioning her own reality.
But the abuse wasn’t just emotional. Lauren shares how the manipulation escalated to harassment, stalking, and a terrifying instance of physical violence. She also reveals how his mother treated her with contempt, as though envious of the bond Lauren shared with her son.
After finally breaking free from the relationship, Lauren endured months of threatening messages, phone calls, and surprise visits—until he abruptly married someone else just four months later. It was his ninth marriage.
This episode dives deep into the signs of narcissistic abuse, the patterns of coercive control, and the extraordinary strength it takes to escape such a relationship.
We believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect; no names and little descriptive details are included.
Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic narcissistic behavior, emotional abuse, gaslighting, harassment, stalking, physical violence, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.
We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.
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Hosts: Behk & LAH
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Production & Design: LAHarden
Music: No Reason Why by Anchor
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