
CHAYEI SARA
Following the Script
The concept of living with equanimity and faith through the life of Sarah, the matriarch.
This introduces the central message: our lives are not stories we write ourselves, but rather stories that G-d orchestrates. We are actors on His stage, and our role is to do our best while trusting that the true good unfolds according to His plan, which sees far beyond our immediate understanding.
The Torah describes Sarah's years as "equal in goodness," which the sages interpret to mean she maintained complete equilibrium throughout her life. Despite decades of waiting for children and experiencing aging followed by miraculous rejuvenation, Sarah lived constantly maintaining G-d's presence before her. She understood that life's ups and downs were all part of G-d's narrative, not her own struggle.
Like King David who sang psalms both in triumph and when fleeing from his rebellious son Absalom, Sarah remained spiritually balanced because she recognized she was living in G-d's story, not her own. Her apparent "failures" - the long wait, the aging - were actually essential parts of creating the miraculous story that would inspire the world for millennia.
The message is to accept our circumstances with serenity, knowing that God is writing our story for ultimate good.