Want to coach with me? Book a free no pressure consultation call here: https://overcomingptsd.com/consultation Learn the proven system that’s helped 2,000+ trauma survivors reduce symptoms by 77.9% in just 4.5 months without therapy or medication 👉 https://overcomingptsd.com/ How to Be Social With PTSD Without Burning OutFrom Isolation to Connection: Overcoming PTSD at Social EventsBeating Holiday Social Anxiety With PTSD (Without Faking a Smile)Trauma, Shame, and the Fear of Being “Found Out” in Social SituationsHow to Stop Letting PTSD Turn Parties Into Panic TrapsRebuilding Relationships After Trauma When You’ve Pulled Away for YearsA Simple Social Plan for PTSD: Triggers, Exit Routes, and Self-TalkHow to Handle Crowds, Noise, and Overwhelm With a Trauma-Sensitive PlanThe Truth About PTSD, Loneliness, and Why Everyone Is More Anxious Than You ThinkFrom Hiding in Your Room to Hosting Again: Social Tools for Trauma Survivors Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching In this Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching session, Brad and Kayleen break down how to be social when you absolutely do not feel like being social—especially around holidays, family gatherings, and big events. If PTSD or trauma has turned barbecues, birthdays, and weddings into situations you dread, this episode shows you why that happens and what to do about it. Brad shares openly about the years he spent isolating, hiding in his room during family holidays, and avoiding people he loved because of shame and the fear of being “found out.” You’ll hear how he began to own his pain, release pressure to be perfect, and re-enter social situations with a calmer mind and a practical plan. Together, Brad and Kayleen walk you through mindset shifts that dissolve a lot of the internal pressure—like realizing most people are thinking about themselves, not judging you, and that hurting doesn’t make you broken or bad. They also show you how to pair that mindset with simple tools and an exit plan so you feel safer going into any gathering. By the end, you’ll have a clearer picture of how to stop letting PTSD dictate your social life, how to handle triggers in the moment, and how to slowly rebuild relationships you may have pulled away from during the hardest seasons of your trauma journey.   💡 What You’ll Learn Why PTSD and trauma make social events and holidays feel overwhelming How shame, fear of judgment, and “being found out” secretly fuel isolation A mindset shift that lets you show up without pretending everything is perfect How to create a calm social plan including triggers, tools, and a safe exit option Practical grounding tools like the Butterfly Hug you can use discreetly in public How to use self-talk to decide when to stay, when to step out, and how to come back Ways to rebuild strained relationships after years of trauma-driven withdrawal How consistency, healing routines, and processing work reduce social anxiety over time Why discomfort is part of growth—and how to tell the difference between pain and healthy stretching   🧠 Key Takeaway You don’t have to be perfect or pain-free to be social—you just need an honest mindset, a few simple tools, and a plan that reminds you you’re safe, worthy, and allowed to be human. 🔗 Next Steps Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive. To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit https://overcomingptsd.com/consultation.   CHAPTERS: 00:00 Welcome & 4th of July check-in02:00 Why holidays and social events feel so hard with PTSD06:15 Brad’s story: isolation, shame, and fear of being “found out”13:40 Reframing social anxiety: everyone is in their own head20:05 Mindset shifts: you’re not broken, bad, or alone22:30 Building a social safety plan (triggers, tools, exit routes)30:10 Using self-talk to navigate tough conversations & discomfort37:45 Rebuilding relationships after years of isolation46:20 Healing routines, c