What happens when two souls—both seekers, party-goers, and self-proclaimed energy workers—collide in a conversation about chaos, connection, and higher consciousness? You get a podcast episode that invites you to rethink the way you approach life, parties, and the energy you bring to every space you enter.
In this episode, Evan Cudworth shares his journey from reckless rager to intentional connector. He’s a guide for anyone looking to transform their social life into a source of joy, freedom, and growth. Known for partying sober for two years and helping others embrace authentic social connections, Evan breaks down how to turn anxiety into flow, even in the middle of a festival.
Joining him is Alexandra, a former "crazy party girl" turned energy worker and healer. With a background in trauma-informed practices, Alexandra’s approach is grounded in harmonizing higher consciousness with raw humanity. Whether she’s guiding ceremonies, channeling chaos on the dance floor, or teaching people how to heal through Reiki, Alexandra offers practical insights for anyone seeking to align their inner world with their outer experiences.
Together, Evan and Alexandra unpack why the party never truly ends—because the real party is within you.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in the cycles of regret, questioned the meaning of joy, or wondered why connection sometimes feels so elusive, this episode is your invitation to shift your perspective. Tune in for stories about skydiving festivals, healing through chaos, and tools to help you step into a life worth celebrating.
connect with Alexandra: https://www.healeralexandra.com/
connect w/ Evan: partycoach.me/links
QUOTES: "When you're in your highest expression of joy and authenticity, that energy radiates out. Amazing things can happen. You'll meet incredible people, go on side quests, and find unexpected opportunities." – Alexandra "If you never want the party to end, there’s probably something you’re avoiding." – Alexandra "Higher consciousness isn’t about being above anyone else—it’s about harmonizing with every version of yourself and others without judgment." – Evan "Partying was my way to connect with God. It let me feel something bigger than myself, even if I didn’t have the language for it at the time." – Alexandra "Substances are tools, not solutions. The key is knowing when they serve you and when they don’t." – Alexandra "A party can’t be controlled. If you’re controlling it, it’s not a party." – Evan "Growth is like a tree. You plant seeds, nurture them, and eventually enjoy the fruit. But once the fruit is gone, you start the process again. Growth isn’t a one-time thing." – Alexandra "I love where I am now, and I loved where I was then. There’s no regret—just different seasons of joy." – Alexandra "When you’re in a room full of people vibrating to the same energy, it’s not fake. It’s real, and it’s powerful. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise." – Evan
00:00 Welcome to Season Three 00:24 Lessons from Partying 01:22 SkyFest Memories 02:36 Transitioning Partying Habits 04:31 Exploring Higher Consciousness 08:51 Understanding Psychic Abilities 15:13 Energy Work at Parties 20:12 Rituals and Frequency Matching 26:32 Navigating Substance Use and Enjoyment 28:03 Practical Advice on Substance Relationships 29:50 Personal Experiences and Reflections 33:50 Healing and Wellness Practices 38:05 Intuition vs. Science 40:09 Party Culture and Personal Growth 49:38 Higher Consciousness and Harmonizing 51:31 Working with Higher Consciousness 52:52 Final Thoughts and Farewell