In this episode of Please Say The Dailey, sociologist and host Vanisha R. Dailey slows down a conversation that’s been circulating heavily online — particularly around studs, “straight women,” and who gets to be considered legitimately queer. Rather than leading with hot takes, this episode looks at what these debates reveal about belonging, sexuality, and the ways queer communities sometimes reproduce conditional acceptance instead of care. Pulling from sociological research, queer theory, a...
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In this episode of Please Say The Dailey, sociologist and host Vanisha R. Dailey slows down a conversation that’s been circulating heavily online — particularly around studs, “straight women,” and who gets to be considered legitimately queer. Rather than leading with hot takes, this episode looks at what these debates reveal about belonging, sexuality, and the ways queer communities sometimes reproduce conditional acceptance instead of care. Pulling from sociological research, queer theory, a...
'Tis the Season for Shaming People That Celebrate Holidays and Feed Capitalism!
Please Say The Dailey
20 minutes
1 month ago
'Tis the Season for Shaming People That Celebrate Holidays and Feed Capitalism!
Follow Me on Substack: https://vanishardailey.substack.com/about 12/04/25 In this episode of Please Say The Dailey, Vanisha talks about the controversial topic of how holiday celebrations are often tied to consumerism and capitalism. She discusses why some people feel judged or ostracized for “participating” in holidays, even when their celebration is rooted in family, joy, or tradition rather than consumer excess. She questions whether holiday-shaming is ever actually justified and what role...
Please Say The Dailey
In this episode of Please Say The Dailey, sociologist and host Vanisha R. Dailey slows down a conversation that’s been circulating heavily online — particularly around studs, “straight women,” and who gets to be considered legitimately queer. Rather than leading with hot takes, this episode looks at what these debates reveal about belonging, sexuality, and the ways queer communities sometimes reproduce conditional acceptance instead of care. Pulling from sociological research, queer theory, a...
