
The Underlying Logic of Fatal Attraction
Why do you ignore the people who adore you, yet obsess over the ones who ignore you? Is it bad luck, or is it a crossed wire in your brain? In this episode, we perform surgery on your dating logic. We move beyond "feelings" and "intuition" to look at the hard science of desire—combining evolutionary psychology, behavioral economics, and the philosophy of Stoicism. It’s time to stop trusting your gut and start understanding the biological codes that drive fatal attraction.
The Shift: How you go from "Ice Queen" to "Anxious Pleaser" in three days.
The Trap of Intuition: Why trusting your "gut" is actually a failure of logic (System 2 thinking).
The Biology of Vibes: Understanding Hypergamy and the search for "Ancient Strength."
The Cave Experiment: Why we are evolutionarily programmed to choose the Stoic over the Jock.
The Bad Boy Illusion: Why you mistake apathy for strength, and how to spot a "Paper Tiger."