Dutch immigrant Iris shares her experience with the NRC as someone close to, but not part of, the community. We talk about the expectations these communities have for outsiders, the ways various unpleasant things are turned away from and go unaddressed, and how the NRC affects the wider communities they inhabit.     TW: this episode contains brief mentions of abortion, intimate personal violence, sexual assault, and homophobia.  Please listen with care. __________   Find us on Instagram: @predestinedpod  Email us: nrc.story@gmail.com __________   Thank you to the talented Joseph Tennant for the use of his song Newborn Day. Find him on Spotify here.