In this episode, Kathie shares a powerful story from a family race where her youngest daughter crossed the finish line last—and proudly declared, “I’m the last winner!” It’s a reminder we all need: competition doesn’t have to come with comparison.

Kathie breaks down the difference between healthy competition and harmful comparison, and why tying your self-worth to someone else’s performance is a losing game. You’ll learn how to shift your focus from trying to “win” against others to growing toward your own milestones. Plus, how to let others' success inspire you instead of intimidate you.

Whether you're chasing goals in work, parenting, or personal development, this episode will help you stay driven without losing your confidence along the way.