Have you ever heard a piece of advice that everyone seems to love, but it just doesn’t sit right with you? In this episode, Kathie explores why not every message is meant for every person. She shares the story behind her “Do what makes you happy” sweatshirt, how it encourages her to stop people-pleasing, but made someone else cringe, and unpacks how the same message can help or hurt depending on who we are, what we’re struggling with, and what season we’re in.

Through real examples like “You are enough,” “Hustle harder,” and “Let it go,” Kathie helps you recognize which messages are worth holding onto and which ones you can gently set down. Because wisdom isn’t about taking in every message, it’s about knowing which ones are meant for you.