Proverbs 9:12If you are wise, you are wise for yourself; but if you scoff, you alone will bear it.Proverbs Daily is a reader-supported publication. All posts are free, but all donations help spread the message. When you see the word “upgrade,” you’re simply invited to help me make the sacred positively contagious...thank you in advance for becoming a free or paid subscriber.Ever noticed how much of your actual life happens behind your face? Your real decisions don’t start with your mouth… They start with that voice inside your head–the voice no one else hears.It’s like that moment in The Wizard of Oz when the curtain gets pulled back, and the booming voice yells: “Pay no attention to that little man behind the curtain!”Bruh…Sis…come on! That’s us. We out here polishing our image, projecting confidence, posting highlight reels— while the one behind the curtain is working overtime trying to make us look all ‘great and mighty’. And Proverbs 9:12 speaks right to that backstage reality:“If you are wise, you are wise for yourself; If you scoff, you will bear it alone.”Translation: Your self-talk is steering your future. And nobody rides in your mind but you.A STORY TOLD ABOUT ‘SELF-TALK’In the famous story of the Prodigal Son–Jesus didn’t just tell a story about two brothers— He told a story about inner dialogue.Let’s break it down from Luke 15:12–131️⃣ “The younger Son SAID it to himself…”Before the prodigal son packed bags, hit the road, or broke hearts… he held a conversation within himself. He told himself: “I’d be better off without my father’s boundaries.” And that private thought became a public disaster.2️⃣ What about The Father’s Self-TalkAfter the son’s rebellion, the father rehearsed mercy. Every day he told himself, “Today could be the day he comes back. I’m still looking. I’m still hoping.” His actions revealed the meditations of his heart.3️⃣ Then there’s the Older Brother’s Self-TalkHe says within himself: “I’ve served, I’ve obeyed… and I got nothing.” Comparison poisoned his inner world long before his words ever came out.4️⃣ And Then the Turning Point — When “He came to himself.” (vs.17)This is the linchpin of the entire story. Not when the famine came. Not when he hit rock bottom. Not when the money ran dry.Redemption began when he had a conversation within himself: “I will arise and go to my father.”The whole story pivots on self-talk— from disaster to redemption, from distance to return.See the pattern?✦ His downfall began with the wrong inner voice. ✦ His restoration began with the right one.That’s Proverbs 9:12 playing out in real time:If you’re wise—you benefit first. If you’re foolish—you pay first.So Do Yourself a FavorLook at this: The very fact you told yourself, “Let me listen to some wisdom today,” is one of the ways you’re already doing yourself a favor.Your spirit is feeding right now. Your inner world is strengthening. And that’s going to spill outward into decisions, habits, and healing.When you are wise— you are the first person to feel the blessing. When you are foolish— you are the first person to feel the burn.So today, talk to yourself like someone worth saving. Worth loving. Worth guiding. Worth redeeming.Because you are.🔥 RememberYou’re the only person who hears your inner voice… but everyone you love will live in the impact of what it decides..PrayerLord, reshape my self-talk; guide it toward honoring You.Today’s ChallengeNotice one moment of self-talk today. Write it down. Naming it is how you take its power back. Then ask: “Is this voice leading me home… or leading me away?”Choose the voice that blesses your future self.About the AuthorFred Lynch is a creative communicator, author, and Christian Hip Hop pioneer. To learn more about Fred and what he’s up to now…click here or you can find him in all the socials by searching the handle: heyfredlynch📱Experience Proverbs Daily by Subscribing!Ready to receive daily...