Looking closely at the structure of Proverbs chap 14:1-14, something of a pattern emerges.  Verses 1, 4, 7 and 11 are roughly parallel referring to the foundation of a household.  These verses are followed by others that scrutinize progress to that end in verses 2, 3, 8 and 12. The remaining verses predict the future of life directions set by either wisdom vs. folly. In context here, the featured agent of wisdom to illustrate these truths is the wife and homemaker.  The book of Proverbs is no respecter of persons when it comes to application of principle.  Here wives and mothers are encouraged to order their affairs, govern their souls, and live their lives, according to the timeless law of God, just as their husbands and children are likewise commanded.