Lewis Oakley: Bisexual Visibility, Identity, and Owning the In-Between

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Queer Talker

Ben Cicchetti

24 episodes

1 week ago

Queer Talker is a podcast celebrating the stories and journeys of LGBTQ+ individuals from all walks of life, from business leaders to celebrities and influencers. Through open and authentic conversations, we explore themes of identity, authenticity, and the power of living boldly.

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Lewis Oakley: Bisexual Visibility, Identity, and Owning the In-Between

Queer Talker

50 minutes 42 seconds

2 weeks ago

Lewis Oakley: Bisexual Visibility, Identity, and Owning the In-Between

In this episode of Queer Talker, host Ben Cicchetti sits down with Lewis Oakley, one of the UK’s most visible bisexual voices and a passionate advocate for representation, visibility, and belonging.

Lewis opens up about growing up bisexual in a world that often struggles with nuance, where identities are pushed into boxes and the “in-between” is misunderstood or erased altogether. He reflects on the challenges of being openly bisexual, from stereotypes and disbelief to the pressure to constantly justify your identity.

Together, Ben and Lewis explore why bisexual visibility matters, how language shapes acceptance, and what it means to show up authentically in spaces that are not always designed for complexity. Lewis also speaks candidly about confidence, self-acceptance, and the responsibility that comes with being visible for others who are still finding their voice.

This is a conversation about bisexuality, visibility, and the power of being seen exactly as you are.

Chapters

00:00 Queer Panic Rapid Fire Questions

04:22 Childhood Insights and Early Realizations

07:34 First Experiences in LGBTQ Spaces

10:34 Coming Out and Self-Discovery

13:47 The Complexity of Bisexual Identity

16:32 Navigating Bisexuality in Relationships

19:22 The Impact of Celebrity Influence on Bisexuality

22:40 Visibility and Representation of Bisexuals

25:27 The Reality of Love and Relationships

27:39 The Struggles of Bisexual Identity