There are so many questions about being in our 20s. How do we find our purpose and direction at home, with our friends, and at work? Am I experiencing a Quarter-Life Crisis? Do we find our work meaningful? What am I looking for in my partner? Are my friendships serving my emotional needs? What can I do to better look after myself?Join me and let's talk about our thinking patterns, meaningful hobbies, and all the fun milestones of our 20s.
There are so many questions about being in our 20s. How do we find our purpose and direction at home, with our friends, and at work? Am I experiencing a Quarter-Life Crisis? Do we find our work meaningful? What am I looking for in my partner? Are my friendships serving my emotional needs? What can I do to better look after myself?Join me and let's talk about our thinking patterns, meaningful hobbies, and all the fun milestones of our 20s.
‘Being an eldest daughter is like an unpaid internship for the rest of your life.’
It’s a bit dramatic but holds some truth to it, so let’s unpack that together. Today, I want to cast a spotlight on an experience that’s more niche than the adulting experiences I normally talk about, the experience of a first-born daughter. I hope this episode serves some form of solace for my fellow eldest daughters. And for those listening who aren’t, I hope this gives u a better idea of some of the things we experience so you have a deeper appreciation for the older sisters who may be your friends, partners, family members, or your own.
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