Are you in midlife, perimenopause, or menopause and wondering why you feel stuck, numb, or unsure what you really want?
You’re not alone — and it’s not because you’re lazy, broken, or “too old to change.”
In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the real reason so many smart, sensitive women in midlife feel disconnected from their desires — and why clarity, confidence, and aliveness are so hard to access when you’re stressed, overextended, or running on empty.
We’ll talk about:
- The hidden hormonal shifts of perimenopause and menopause that change how women relate to desire, goals, and self-trust
- How a lifetime of people-pleasing and self-abandonment starts (often between ages 11–13) and why it intensifies until midlife
- Why feeling “stuck” or “indecisive” is often a nervous system survival strategy — not a personal flaw
- How your body protects you from disappointment by shutting down desire (and how to gently reopen it)
- Why chasing achievement won’t fulfill you if you skip the deeper work of aliveness
- The role dopamine plays in wanting vs. having — and how to use it to feel more alive right now
If you’re ready to stop running on autopilot, stop waiting for the next big achievement to make you happy, and start reconnecting to a life that feels rich, vibrant, and aligned, this conversation is your roadmap.
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If you’ve been feeling stuck, numb, anxious, or out of alignment, my 54321 Anxiety Reset will bring you back into your body — in just 7 minutes.
This free, guided sensory experience will help you:
- Quiet a racing mind
- Shift out of spiraling thoughts
- Release tension you didn’t even realize you were holding
- Feel grounded, calm, and present again
You’ll get instant access to the audio right on your phone (no special app required), plus a beautiful one-page PDF you can keep for quick reference anytime life feels overwhelming.
It’s free, it’s fast, and it works — even if you’ve tried all the “mindset” tools before and nothing stuck.
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Inside your FEELING GOOD journey:
- 14 private podcast modules A new episode drops every 3 days. Listen to anywhere, anytime. . . and listen again!
- Science-backed nervous system tools to reduce stress + increase energy
- Tiny, compounding upgrades to sleep, mood, movement, and boundaries
- A quiet, confident recalibration—without diet rules, gym guilt, or overwhelm
- Engage at your own pace, knowing these recordings are yours to keep!
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🌙 The conversation doesn’t end here.
- My Inner Circle gets the first drops—new podcast sneak peeks, early access to offers, and the notes I only share off-mic. Join us here.
🌿 Free Support for Your Nervous System
- Start here → The Free Anxiety Reset: a 7-minute guided tool to calm spiraling thoughts and come back to yourself. Think of it like a nervous system reboot—on demand.
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💛 Connect with Kate:
Email kate@radicallykate.com or DM on Instagram: @radicallyKate