So many of today’s kids, not all, but many are quietly drowning in the need to be liked, accepted, and chosen. And when that validation disappears, some of them don’t know how to stand, how to cope, or how to regulate the emotions that come rushing in. In this powerful episode, Kim Mittelstadt speaks directly to the heart of a growing crisis affecting teens and young adults: the emotional fallout of external validation. You’ll learn why rejection feels catastrophic to so many teens, why emotional regulation has become a lost skill, and how five years of post-pandemic social shifts have intensified anxiety, comparison, and loneliness. Kim shares the deeply personal story of her own daughter’s struggle with bullying, emotional collapse, and the night everything changed and how their family fought their way back to healing. With raw honesty and gentle guidance, she explains what our kids are missing, what they’re truly asking for, and how moms can step into a new role using her signature Power Shift Theory™. If you’ve ever felt helpless watching your child crumble under pressure, pull away, or chase approval from the wrong places, this episode will help you understand what’s really happening beneath the surface and what you can do today to anchor your child in true, unshakeable worth. In this episode you’ll learn: Why external validation has become the new emotional currency The connection between teen rejection, anger, shutdown, and self-harm How the pandemic changed social development and emotional literacy The real reason boys and girls express pain differently The missing skill every teen needs to survive disappointment How to shift from Protector → Mentor → Supporter using the Power Shift Theory™ Simple ways to model internal confidence and emotional calm in your home Go deeper:Unlock ongoing support, tools, and resources inside the Her Power Within™ Vault  exclusively for moms committed to raising emotionally strong, grounded, confident kids.  💗 Real talk. Real tools. For moms raising kids in a high-pressure world.